There are weeks that go by when I live my “normal” life. Treating patients 4 1/2 days a week. Nurturing my relationship with my wife (we are “empty-nesters”). Attending to church duties. Being spiritually fed. Strengthening relationships with my church family. It is during those weeks, though personally satisfying, there is not much “to write home about”.
Then there are weeks like the last two.
Two weeks ago I attended the Amputee Coalition Conference in Louisville, KY. At the conference, I learned many things. The first (and probably MOST IMPORTANT) lesson is that I am not alone in this amputee journey. As I live my day to day life in a small town in southeast Kansas, I rarely run into amputees. There are weeks I don’t even see another one. All the struggles–sore residual limb, pinching socket, sore muscles, lack of stamina while walking, a less-than ideal gait are mine alone. There is no one to talk to–or so it seems.
David Vobora presented in a session about fitness and driving each of us to be better than before. He was a linebacker for the Los Angeles Rams and the Seattle Seahawks before retiring due to injuries.
He founded an organization called Adaptive Training Foundation. He helps wounded soldiers and other amputees to work and improve. In his presentation he taught me that “pressure is a privilege”. My amputee condition can open up avenues to help others in so many ways. Many times amputees want nothing more than to go back to their “normal” lives. His challenge to me was to catapult past the old normal–to be even better (in a different way).
The Conference had many breakout sessions on very different topics. There were sessions for Above Knee amputees (there were AT LEAST 150 Above knee amputees like me), Below Knee amputees, Arm amputees, Men amputees, Women amputees, children amputees. There were sessions on future health conditions that affect prosthetic users (arthritis, lower back pain, etc) There were classes on cycling and swimming (taught by paralympians). There were classes that showed that almost all organized sports can be adapted to amputees. This excited me, because I really want to get back onto the ski slopes again!
Sgt. Anthony Larson, his adaptive ski instructor close behind, skis down the beginner’s hill in his mono-ski March 9, 2007 in Vail, Colo. Larson lost his right leg below the knee while serving in Iraq. The private mono-ski lesson is part of the Vail Veterans Program’s winter sports clinic. Defense Dept. photo by Samantha L. Quigley
Another highlight was the Mobility (Walking) session. For two and 1/2 hours I worked one on one with a Physical Therapy student under the direction of the world renowned amputee walking expert, Bob Gailey. I received pointers on how to improve my walking.
I enjoyed the conference so much that before I came home, I had already blocked off my schedule to attend next years conference to be held in Tucson, AZ.
I was disturbed that of all the people I met and talked to personally, about 20-25% lost their limb as a direct result of a motor cycle accident. I enjoy riding my Harley. I really need to be careful because I do not have any more limbs to give up!
This past weekend, I did something I have not done in over three years. As you may know, on July 4, 2014, I lost my right leg in a tragic accident while riding a jet ski on Stockton Lake, MO. Well, I finally got back on the VERY SAME Yamaha Wave Runner I was riding on that fateful day. The hardest part of that ride was not convincing myself to get back on it. I had always planned on it. The toughest thing was deciding to ride with the prosthesis or without it. In the end I rode without it.
I ended up walking towards the jet ski that was beached at the lake’s edge. It was there I doffed the prosthesis and hopped with the help of my son, Brandon to the ski. I kicked my residual limb over the seat and set off on my maiden ride. It was exhilarating and simply awesome getting back on the saddle of that personal water craft. It was a major milestone in my progress forward. The one concern I had was as I rode slowly in the “no wake zone”, the craft listed to the left. I thought that maybe I was sitting crooked, when I suddenly realized my left side weighs more that my left side.
I am blessed in so many ways. I have a wonderful family to support me. I have a beautiful wife who pushes me and will not let me slack (even if I wanted to). I know of God’s love for me. My life really is good.
Until next time!